CODEPENDENCY IS ALL IN YOUR MIND...
The way to resolve your CODEPENDENCY (and other addictions) is to engage in an in-depth process of emotional healing and self-nurturing psychotherapy.
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What Is Codependency Really?
Over the past 25 years I’ve been involved in counseling many individuals in ‘co-dependent relationships’… I believe codependency is a learned behavior that can be ‘moved down’ ancestrally from family to family…generation to generation, which is evidenced and seen in/by dysfunctional family patterns from one generation to another. It is a condition (brought on through conditioning) that is both emotional and behavioral. Depending on the degree of addiction...Co-dependency may affect the ability of the addict-person to be in a healthy, satisfying and fulfilling relationship.
Notice my wording...Codependency is in many cases and addiction (this is a well-known fact in humanistic psychotherapy circles) that is, with many codependents, people who have codependency addiction often form or maintain addictive relationships, which are basically all one way, emotionally damaging and unhealthy.
Codependency was/is depending on
depth or addiction coined as a ‘disorder’.
...and was identified as such over a decade ago in behavioral psychotherapy; this was due to research conducted in human relationships with the families of alcoholics.
How Codependency all started…Alcoholism...for many
When a family member or members showed or demonstrate to their children this kind of addictive behavior, bottom-line…through conditioning they and other family members (especially children) learned codependency as a learned behavior (by conditioning over time) from other adult family members.
Codependency can effect many…through problematic conditioning…
The addict of co-dependency can affect anyone in the family through conditioning (as older psychological studies have shown) many studies confirm and also include an ancestor that is close to the co-dependent person who is suffering from drug or alcohol dependence.
Normally, ‘the co-dependency’ and 'the codependent' is a term used for a relationship with a dependent living with others in a relationship with codependency, or has other contacts with the dependent persons.
However over the past 10 years the term codependency has been extended to describe almost any codependent/dependent person from any dysfunctional family or relationship.
What is a dysfunctional family pattern?
The definition or explanation of a dysfunctional family (and their patterns) is when a family member suffers from anger, pain, fear or shame, which is generally ignored or rejected by others.
Under the ‘belly’ of these problems may lay one of the following:
The dependence of a parent or alcohol, drugs, work, food, sex, or any other action or an addictive substance. The existence of 'emotional abuse, physical or sexual abuse. The presence of having a family member suffering from a physical illness or chronic issue etc.
8 other points to consider:
1. When you are in a dysfunctional family dynamic, the problems are not recognized or out in the open.
2. This lack of awareness makes the problems of codependency seem to ‘not exist’ for many.
3. In codependent family’s dynamics, the family members then begin to suppress and ignore their emotions and needs.
4. Developing within themselves their own behavior to ignore and deny their own difficult emotions.
5. Over time children grow up and they go out, do not touch, talk, smell, face, or even trust themselves or others.
6. The personal identity of the family member affected and their emotions are often difficult (of the individual and family).
7. All the energy and focus of the individual goes to the family and focuses on the ill or co/or dependent person.
8. Children through conditioning then become ‘lost’ in taking care of the needs and wishes of the ill or dependent family member, usually adult, parent, etc.
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Best,
Todd Tawzer
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