WHY ARE YOU A PORN ADDICT?
YES! You can change/Cure your Porn Addiction!
New studies by psychotherapists in Colorado in sexual addiction research have outlined at least FOUR CORE beliefs common with most porn addicts.
How it all starts…generally, PORN ADDICTION usually results from growing up in a dysfunctional family, especially one with rigid rules, little warmth and affirmation, abandonment, and sexual or emotional abuse.
BOTTOM-LINE…
The root of sexual addiction usually begins in childhood AND IS LOCKED INTO THE UNCONSCIOUS MIND.
The 4 core subconscious beliefs are the following:
are key to understanding porn addiction.
What a child or teen learns during these stages creates the unconscious program. For example…when a child's exploration of sexuality goes beyond discovery to routine self-comforting because of the lack of human care, there is potential for addiction. Sex becomes confused with comforting and nurturing. For example, a lonely and abused 13-year-old finds comfort in masturbation and pornography. More and more, he or she uses that for solace. As years go by, the type of sexual acting out may change. It can involve promiscuity, affairs, visiting massage parlors or prostitutes, and even viewing child pornography."
How it all starts…generally, PORN ADDICTION usually results from growing up in a dysfunctional family, especially one with rigid rules, little warmth and affirmation, abandonment, and sexual or emotional abuse.
BOTTOM-LINE…
The root of sexual addiction usually begins in childhood AND IS LOCKED INTO THE UNCONSCIOUS MIND.
The 4 core subconscious beliefs are the following:
- I’m basically a bad, unworthy person.
- No one would love me as I am.
- My needs are never going to be met if I have to depend upon others.
- Sex is my most important need.
are key to understanding porn addiction.
What a child or teen learns during these stages creates the unconscious program. For example…when a child's exploration of sexuality goes beyond discovery to routine self-comforting because of the lack of human care, there is potential for addiction. Sex becomes confused with comforting and nurturing. For example, a lonely and abused 13-year-old finds comfort in masturbation and pornography. More and more, he or she uses that for solace. As years go by, the type of sexual acting out may change. It can involve promiscuity, affairs, visiting massage parlors or prostitutes, and even viewing child pornography."
Porn Addiction and Core Issues:
Your Sub-conscious Mind drives YOUR PORN ADDICTION-Behavior. Did you know? We all do certain things out of our conscious mind found in the front of our brain, whereas most of our actions/reactions are dependent on our subconscious mind (found in the back of our brain). Each mind (subconscious and conscious) are like reflex action in some ways, but different in many ways.
Physical Reflex Action & fight flight freeze
In the case of a physical reflex action, there is some action or disturbance in or around you, and before you know or you realize it, your body reacts to the disturbance with fight flight freeze. But immediately after the reflex action, you know how your body has reacted.
Emotional Reflex Action & fight flight freeze
However in the case of our emotional reflex action our subconscious behavior or the ‘mental reflex action’, most often, our conscious mind is not even aware that we have reacted to certain subconscious stimuli. This is key to resolving your porn addiction.
Arrested Emotional Development
It is said by many that the conscious mind is logical, analytical. The Subconscious mind is illogical because of “Arrested Emotional Development” from childhood (the root cause of non-logical subconscious reaction to emotional stimuli).
Since most of our behavior is governed by the subconscious mind, you can imagine what will be the outcome… porn addiction etc.
Your Core Issue isn’t Porn Addition…
that is your symptom…
It’s your subconscious mind ...THAT IS AT THE CORE!
Most of our unnatural or abnormal behavior is due to the second category of Emotional Reflex Action & the fight flight freeze items in us beyond our consciousness.
These are the items of which we formed some judgments about ourselves (“I’m not Ok”) in our childhood…then these get reinforced into our subconscious mind. Or these ‘issues’ could be associated with some embarrassing experiences when we had to be ashamed of our own self, creating negative judgment about ourselves.
These are generally the things that we would like to forget about and not think about – we mostly try to push them under the ‘carpet’ and not think of them. They eventually leave our conscious mind, but remain in our subconscious mind.
EMOTIONAL PAIN POINTS
These are your subconscious ‘pain points’ and the root cause of your porn addiction.
Your porn addiction is the most predictable and uncontrolled when you experience any of your subconscious pain points.
Incidents in life or comments of people around you may continuously touch your conscience, but you may not react till it pricks on the subconscious pain point and then the reaction is again “Oooi..!!” Different people have different emotional pain points. Hence the same experience may not affect one person but may upset another.
When we experience these subconscious pain points, we are overcome with some strange senses and our reaction may not be very controlled (PORN ADDICTION).
These could well be the same feelings and sensations that you first had when you had the unpleasant experience as a CHILD, and which you all along tried to push under the carpet and banish from your mind.
In such EMOTIONAL situations, we become absolutely helpless in our actions. We are totally driven and not in control. Whenever we face that emotional situation which touches our subconscious EMOTIONAL pain point, we always compulsively react with very little control. However hard we try and decide to act differently, when it comes to the real moment, we are helplessly overcome by that same sensation and feeling and we act predictably (against our wish) based on our subconscious mind.
YOUR SUBCONSCIOUS MIND IS THE KEY TO YOUR PORN ADDICTION!
Physical Reflex Action & fight flight freeze
In the case of a physical reflex action, there is some action or disturbance in or around you, and before you know or you realize it, your body reacts to the disturbance with fight flight freeze. But immediately after the reflex action, you know how your body has reacted.
Emotional Reflex Action & fight flight freeze
However in the case of our emotional reflex action our subconscious behavior or the ‘mental reflex action’, most often, our conscious mind is not even aware that we have reacted to certain subconscious stimuli. This is key to resolving your porn addiction.
Arrested Emotional Development
It is said by many that the conscious mind is logical, analytical. The Subconscious mind is illogical because of “Arrested Emotional Development” from childhood (the root cause of non-logical subconscious reaction to emotional stimuli).
Since most of our behavior is governed by the subconscious mind, you can imagine what will be the outcome… porn addiction etc.
Your Core Issue isn’t Porn Addition…
that is your symptom…
It’s your subconscious mind ...THAT IS AT THE CORE!
Most of our unnatural or abnormal behavior is due to the second category of Emotional Reflex Action & the fight flight freeze items in us beyond our consciousness.
These are the items of which we formed some judgments about ourselves (“I’m not Ok”) in our childhood…then these get reinforced into our subconscious mind. Or these ‘issues’ could be associated with some embarrassing experiences when we had to be ashamed of our own self, creating negative judgment about ourselves.
These are generally the things that we would like to forget about and not think about – we mostly try to push them under the ‘carpet’ and not think of them. They eventually leave our conscious mind, but remain in our subconscious mind.
EMOTIONAL PAIN POINTS
These are your subconscious ‘pain points’ and the root cause of your porn addiction.
Your porn addiction is the most predictable and uncontrolled when you experience any of your subconscious pain points.
Incidents in life or comments of people around you may continuously touch your conscience, but you may not react till it pricks on the subconscious pain point and then the reaction is again “Oooi..!!” Different people have different emotional pain points. Hence the same experience may not affect one person but may upset another.
When we experience these subconscious pain points, we are overcome with some strange senses and our reaction may not be very controlled (PORN ADDICTION).
These could well be the same feelings and sensations that you first had when you had the unpleasant experience as a CHILD, and which you all along tried to push under the carpet and banish from your mind.
In such EMOTIONAL situations, we become absolutely helpless in our actions. We are totally driven and not in control. Whenever we face that emotional situation which touches our subconscious EMOTIONAL pain point, we always compulsively react with very little control. However hard we try and decide to act differently, when it comes to the real moment, we are helplessly overcome by that same sensation and feeling and we act predictably (against our wish) based on our subconscious mind.
YOUR SUBCONSCIOUS MIND IS THE KEY TO YOUR PORN ADDICTION!
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Notes:
Behaviors and key words associated with porn sexual addiction include:
Sexual Addiction Treatment Counseling Therapy Anonymous groups Compulsive masturbation (self-stimulation) Multiple affairs (extra-marital affairs) Multiple or anonymous sexual partners and/or one-night stands Consistent use of pornography Unsafe sex Phone or computer sex (cybersex) Prostitution or use of prostitutes Exhibitionism Obsessive dating through personal ads Voyeurism (watching others) and/or stalking Sexual harassment Molestation/rape Infidelity Affairs etc Porn Addiction Therapy, Sex Addiction Counseling, Porn Addiction Therapist, Sex Addiction Counselor, Pornography Addiction Treatment, Sexual Addiction Treatment, Porn addiction Counselor, Sex addiction Therapy, Porn Addiction
Counseling, Sex Addiction Therapist, Sexologist, Sex Addicts Anonymous, SA, Sexual Addiction Group, SLAA, Sex and Love Addiction Anonymous, Sexaholics Anonymous, Sexual Compulsives Anonymous
http://sexual-addiction-counseling.weebly.com/
http://sexual-addiction.weebly.com/the-real-secrets-to-breaking-porn-addiction.html
http://sexual-addiction-cure.webs.com/
http://tazreports.wordpress.com/2011/01/25/masturbation-addiction-treatment-cure-masturbation-therapy-masturbation-help-therapy-counseling/
http://sexual-addiction-therapy.over-blog.com/
http://the-taz-reports.webs.com/sexaddictioncounseling.htm
http://sexual-addiction.weebly.com/
http://infidelities.webs.com/
http://infidelity-cure.webs.com/
http://love-addiction-therapy-cure.webs.com/
http://marriage-couple-counseling.webs.com/
http://sexual-addiction.weebly.com/overcoming-porn7-reasons-why-this-always-works.html
http://masturbation-therapy-counseling-cure.webs.com/
http://codependency-treatment-cure.webs.com/
http://addiction123.hubpages.com/hub/Sex-Addiction-Help-Why-Porn-Addiction-Treatment-Doesnt-Work-for-Pornography
http://codependency-treatment.weebly.com/
http://sexual-addiction-cure.webs.com/sexaddictionhelp1.htm
http://sexual-addiction-cure.webs.com/pornaddictionhelp2.htm
http://sexual-addiction.weebly.com/porn-addicts-anonymous-support-fails-many.html
Sex-related habit is determined as any sexually-related, uncontrollable conduct that inhibits normal living and causes serious stress on household, buddies, family, and your workplace.
Sexual habit has also been called hypersexuality, sexual reliance and sexual compulsivity. By any name, it is a uncontrollable conduct that completely rules the addict's lifestyle. Sex-related junkies make sex a concern over household, buddies, and perform. Sex becomes the guiding concept of an addict's lifestyle. They are willing to compromise what they treasure most in order to retain and continue their harmful conduct.
No single conduct design describes sexual habit. These habits can take management of addicts' lifestyle and become uncontrollable. Common habits involve, but are not restricted to uncontrollable self pleasure, uncontrollable heterosexual and gay interactions, porn, prostitution, exhibitionism, voyeurism, indecent calls, and unknown sexual activities. Even the best types of human sexual concept can turn into self-defeating habits.The first phase in searching for help is to confess that a problem prevails. Though marriage, expert, and social repercussions may follow, entrance of the problems must come, no matter the cost. Unfortunately, worry of these repercussions keeps many sexual junkies from searching for help, and the repercussions can be serious.
Many options are available to provide information, assistance, and assistance for sexual junkies trying to restore management of their lifestyle. These involve inpatient and hospital therapy, expert therapy, expert organizations, self-help categories, and after care organizations.
Like other types of junkies, some sexual junkies may never be "cured." Sex-related junkies achieve a state of restoration, but keeping that restoration can be a long term, day-by-day process. The 12 Step therapy strategy educates junkies to take their restoration "one day at a time," working on the present, not the future.
Partners of sexual junkies, like lovers of alcoholics, can also benefit from therapy and organizations. Finding your cherished one is a sex abuser can be a very stressful experience for close relatives. Inpatient and hospital programs, therapy, and organizations are all available to help them restore management of their lifestyle and assistance the restoration of their associate.
After decades of searching, I've learned for myself that everything I 'knew' about Sexual Addiction was WRONG.
"IN REALITY, THE MORE I TRIED TO CONTROL MY ADDICTIONS, THE STRONGER MY CYCLES BECAME…"
Learn why Impulse Control Treatments Counselor/Therapies may FAIL and discover a new Cutting Edge Method that WORKS...
You may not-yet-have-experienced…
…YOUR POWER TO CHANGE!
I’ll explain the Empowering Counseling
Method that worked for me—with a proven success rate.
Click here:
Porn Addiction Treatment
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Notes:
Behaviors and key words associated with porn sexual addiction include:
Sexual Addiction Treatment Counseling Therapy Anonymous groups Compulsive masturbation (self-stimulation) Multiple affairs (extra-marital affairs) Multiple or anonymous sexual partners and/or one-night stands Consistent use of pornography Unsafe sex Phone or computer sex (cybersex) Prostitution or use of prostitutes Exhibitionism Obsessive dating through personal ads Voyeurism (watching others) and/or stalking Sexual harassment Molestation/rape Infidelity Affairs etc Porn Addiction Therapy, Sex Addiction Counseling, Porn Addiction Therapist, Sex Addiction Counselor, Pornography Addiction Treatment, Sexual Addiction Treatment, Porn addiction Counselor, Sex addiction Therapy, Porn Addiction
Counseling, Sex Addiction Therapist, Sexologist, Sex Addicts Anonymous, SA, Sexual Addiction Group, SLAA, Sex and Love Addiction Anonymous, Sexaholics Anonymous, Sexual Compulsives Anonymous
http://sexual-addiction-counseling.weebly.com/
http://sexual-addiction.weebly.com/the-real-secrets-to-breaking-porn-addiction.html
http://sexual-addiction-cure.webs.com/
http://tazreports.wordpress.com/2011/01/25/masturbation-addiction-treatment-cure-masturbation-therapy-masturbation-help-therapy-counseling/
http://sexual-addiction-therapy.over-blog.com/
http://the-taz-reports.webs.com/sexaddictioncounseling.htm
http://sexual-addiction.weebly.com/
http://infidelities.webs.com/
http://infidelity-cure.webs.com/
http://love-addiction-therapy-cure.webs.com/
http://marriage-couple-counseling.webs.com/
http://sexual-addiction.weebly.com/overcoming-porn7-reasons-why-this-always-works.html
http://masturbation-therapy-counseling-cure.webs.com/
http://codependency-treatment-cure.webs.com/
http://addiction123.hubpages.com/hub/Sex-Addiction-Help-Why-Porn-Addiction-Treatment-Doesnt-Work-for-Pornography
http://codependency-treatment.weebly.com/
http://sexual-addiction-cure.webs.com/sexaddictionhelp1.htm
http://sexual-addiction-cure.webs.com/pornaddictionhelp2.htm
http://sexual-addiction.weebly.com/porn-addicts-anonymous-support-fails-many.html
Sex-related habit is determined as any sexually-related, uncontrollable conduct that inhibits normal living and causes serious stress on household, buddies, family, and your workplace.
Sexual habit has also been called hypersexuality, sexual reliance and sexual compulsivity. By any name, it is a uncontrollable conduct that completely rules the addict's lifestyle. Sex-related junkies make sex a concern over household, buddies, and perform. Sex becomes the guiding concept of an addict's lifestyle. They are willing to compromise what they treasure most in order to retain and continue their harmful conduct.
No single conduct design describes sexual habit. These habits can take management of addicts' lifestyle and become uncontrollable. Common habits involve, but are not restricted to uncontrollable self pleasure, uncontrollable heterosexual and gay interactions, porn, prostitution, exhibitionism, voyeurism, indecent calls, and unknown sexual activities. Even the best types of human sexual concept can turn into self-defeating habits.The first phase in searching for help is to confess that a problem prevails. Though marriage, expert, and social repercussions may follow, entrance of the problems must come, no matter the cost. Unfortunately, worry of these repercussions keeps many sexual junkies from searching for help, and the repercussions can be serious.
Many options are available to provide information, assistance, and assistance for sexual junkies trying to restore management of their lifestyle. These involve inpatient and hospital therapy, expert therapy, expert organizations, self-help categories, and after care organizations.
Like other types of junkies, some sexual junkies may never be "cured." Sex-related junkies achieve a state of restoration, but keeping that restoration can be a long term, day-by-day process. The 12 Step therapy strategy educates junkies to take their restoration "one day at a time," working on the present, not the future.
Partners of sexual junkies, like lovers of alcoholics, can also benefit from therapy and organizations. Finding your cherished one is a sex abuser can be a very stressful experience for close relatives. Inpatient and hospital programs, therapy, and organizations are all available to help them restore management of their lifestyle and assistance the restoration of their associate.